Men like noise, women want intimacy.....i'm 30 something and over the hectic days of rocklevel clubs and even resto lounges...I want to talk to a guy when we go out..But the rule is that when the guy chooses, it's usually noisy, he calls it "buzz" I call it a turn off because we can't talk ....when I choose, the restaurant is usually small, i love Zucca and Splendido, both great for food and conversation....